Can we be happy at the same time?

Can we be happy at the same time? I said "we" not "I". What I've experienced and learnt by watching others is that the two person at a same time cannot be happy and it's true.Someone has to cry:''''( So that the next one enjoys happiness.
It's almost a tradition and it's a kind of a rule.Let's examine it  critically.There is a competition going on.It's a big competition.It's a Dancing competition or it may be any kind of competition like racing or singing,story
writing.....and so on.Luckily you have managed to be in Top 3 position and one of them is your best friend who also manages to be in Top 3.Both of you are happy and after some minutes the result announces and you know what,who wins??? Your own best friend.....Then what?....Your friend enjoys every moment....S/he is happy....Has no limit of happiness....Enjoys every moment in winning that competition and you are left
stranded...You feel really bad...tears start to roll down...you heart starts itching.However you try faking yourself and others by smiling and this goes on..........

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu
07:45am, saturday,March 31,2012