know your Personality by the hair you have?

It takes a lot of courage,patience,dedication,lots of care,nourishment to grow a hair.In fact it's not a child play.Growing hair requires lot's of time.So, it may  murder your patience and in the meantime you end up cutting short your hair.
I have a long hair.It took me a year to reach this phase.My hair is curly.so,it needs more treatment than any other hair.At the meantime it needs more care. 
 There are moments in which you feel like you are ugly by keeping a long hair.Sometimes it looks messy and many question arises within you regarding your hair and there are people at the same time who helps you boost your negativity about your hair .Then what....???You listen to them and end up cutting your hard grown long hair.
Short hair is good and it's easy to take care of it but the medium hair, I mean,the hair that's not too long but a bit long than the short hair.At that time it checks your patience. whether you can keep your hair ?or you cut down your hair?.However when it grows big you start loving your hair and i am loving it too.And from it,it's proven that i can persist,I am courageous,Dedicated,lovable,caring person:) ha ha
Enjoy your hair and keep it as it is,never try to copy others's style.Your own hair will be the trademark sooner or later.

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo
15:20, Saturday,31st March 2012

Can we be happy at the same time?

Can we be happy at the same time? I said "we" not "I". What I've experienced and learnt by watching others is that the two person at a same time cannot be happy and it's true.Someone has to cry:''''( So that the next one enjoys happiness.
It's almost a tradition and it's a kind of a rule.Let's examine it  critically.There is a competition going on.It's a big competition.It's a Dancing competition or it may be any kind of competition like racing or singing,story
writing.....and so on.Luckily you have managed to be in Top 3 position and one of them is your best friend who also manages to be in Top 3.Both of you are happy and after some minutes the result announces and you know what,who wins??? Your own best friend.....Then what?....Your friend enjoys every moment....S/he is happy....Has no limit of happiness....Enjoys every moment in winning that competition and you are left
stranded...You feel really bad...tears start to roll down...you heart starts itching.However you try faking yourself and others by smiling and this goes on..........

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu
07:45am, saturday,March 31,2012

Remittance and it's possibilities

Earning and sending money from the foreign country is called a remittance.People go there and work,earn money and then they send their hard earned income to their home land.This is the condition that's revolving around here in Nepal for past few years.People of our country are bound to go there to work.they don't have any other alternative rather than to go foreign countries,use their skills and talents, there precious time just to make sure that their family members there in homeland fulfills their own needs.it's a compulsion.Here in country they don't get any jobs in fact if they get than it would not be the one that matches their skills and talents and also there is not much organization and industries where they can work.due to political situations and there unions in various big big organizations has led the situation more chaotic.

Due to this many organizations are being shut down or are compelled to shut these organizations.Recently SURYA NEPAL one of the pioneering industry has closed its factory due to dispute between workers and management.
Despite all those negativity our country has earned a lot of revenues from remittance.Last fiscal year Rs 2 hundred and 54 million worth of remittance has been entered here in Nepal.It's a 36% more than the previous year.
Not only our country Nepal.Indeed other countries like India,Pakistan,Bhutan,Mexico are also helping there country by the remittance.It has been a good source of earning foreign currency.
It is not a long term solution but the people who has only concentration for today to fulfill basic needs gets more benefit from it than that of others.
Workers not only go there for work but also gain lot of experiences, knowledge,skills which is also the asset that is to be utilized critically and safely.If Government plans and make provision for these workers and if provided them with good platform and opportunities than the face of country can be changed.
Easy and hassle free access to loans can also help them to start business here in the homeland.NRN'S are demanding the dual citizenship which must be provided to them after analyzing critically regarding what and how are they going to contribute for the country? Experience sharing program could help it more.Workshops, training's,seminars could help to exchange ideas to do something more creative than the previous ones.utilizing remittance in the productive sector would help it more for the individual investors and also the country would get more benefit from it in a long term.
let's share the experience and knowledge for the betterment of everyone:)

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

Crazy love makes me crazy) ..it's a song

1 2 3 , you look so pretty
o girls you make me go crazy
o girl you make me go crazy


Your smile is so so so killer
When i see you i go heavier

You like me, I like you
There are things,that we make too
I really wanna say you that
You make me go crazy

(This is actually a Rock song composed by me...if any  rock band reading this song now

than just tell me we'll work on it)

Investigation can reveal

This is with reference to your news report “Woman dies of ‘hospital negligence’” (THT, Mar. 26, Page 6). It is really sad to read the news that a patient from Syangja died in the course of treatment. Now, her relative are claiming that it was the negligence of the doctors that led to her death. Patients visit the hospitals for treatment and the doctors try their best to treat them. However, doctors are not god and all is not in their hands. It is also true that sometimes the negligence of the doctor cannot be ruled out. So, it calls for a thorough investigation in such cases to find out the truth. 

Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu


(This was published in the Newspaper "TheHimalayanTimes" on March 28,2012, Wednesday)

Reality of radio life

People are confused.In fact Radio is not for extroverts.It's for introverts.Those who like to talk with oneself.Those who think they are their best friend.Those who play with their thoughts,it's only for them.
Though i may seem biased now,but it's the reality.many people may think the radio presenters are so extrovert.They talk with callers.There voice is so good.Many people call in their shows.So they may be outgoing.Have many fan following isn't it?
It's true that the radio presenters are liked by many listeners.They follow up their Shows.Some are hardcore fans.They listen carefully each and ever word said by the presenters as if it's the saying of god and follows them.I am not talking here about general listeners, in fact hardcore listeners.
I am a radio presenter in one of the radio station.I do run shows.It's fun to talk and i love talking with me myself.Though listeners may seem like i am talking with them and that's how we create illusion.In fact all radio presenters do that.
My childhood has not been so good as others do have.I am introvert and shy by my nature.In Nepali there is a word "GhusGhuse".Those people who do not talk is much is known as ghusghuse and i am not that.When i was in class 5, I've been a hardcore fan of a radio.I used to call in it and also used to win different exciting prizes.One day at school my friend told me that he listened to me on radio and that was my turning point.I thought i can only express myself well by the help of radio then any other else.In later days,i called more and more,luckily i happened to be the talk of everyone.People used to appreciate my talking and thoughts and this is how my passion towards radio grew more and more.
There are many renowned radio presenters nationally and internationally.Many of them are introverts.Though by looking and hearing them we think they are so extroverts and outgoing personality, but they aren't.If we look into the biographies of these famous people then we could easily sense them.There are radio presenters like Glen Beck,Ryan Seacrest,Simon Cowell,Ellen Degeneres,Ophrah winfrey,Donald Trump, Chris Moyle,Greg James,they all are exceptionally good and the best-radio presenters having a huge fan following all over the world.If you listen to them then you feel like going  GAGA...O la la...However only those presenters know exactly the truth.
Radio is a good source of entertainment and it's the cheapest ones.In fact these days everyone carry it with them.It may be in their cell phone or in an I pad.It's available in torchlight and also in the DvD's too.
The life in the radio is only enjoyed by those who love to talk with himself.The studio is only a room with gadgets and a microphone and you are all alone over there and only talking talking and playing songs all alone and you feel like pampering yourself with beautiful songs and contents.:)

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

My feelings towards you

I let my thoughts go here and there
I let it experience more and more
Coz life is so short baby
And i want to explore many things

You know i don't talk much
It's so difficult to express feelings
I try my best to say you
However i can only do it through writing.

I will say you each and everything
But will not by talking
I know you understand me
I'll do it through my writing.

I've many things to do in life
I can't only stay in one thing
Want to be the one
I am trying trying and achieving

Though it may seem little
But that's how i mingle
You know i am twinkling
Coz you are so bubbling

I love you so much
But i've not shown you too much
Coz i am introvert
In fact i do have feeling for you so much

I want you to know me
Not by like what i seem to be
I may look too serious
But inside i am so curious

You are so beautiful baby
Each day i say you slowly
I am your wellwisher
And will be forever.

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

Never let the things you want make you forget the things you have.

Truly loving someone or something can and should require us to sacrifice some of the things that we want, so that we may place in the best positions the things and the people that we love.

For example, if we want to make a success out of our lives we must be willing to put aside the things we do strictly for entertainment, and focus more on the things that will take us closer to our dreams.

We may also for example be forced to sacrifice some of the time that we may be used to dedicating to ourselves and other friends in our lives, to focus on the relationships in our lives that mean the most to us in the present, and that will help us to blossom in the future.

Devote the time in your life as you desire but always keep in mind to never let the things you want make you forget the things that you love. 

‘Dhukuti’ kills

This is with reference to your news report “Women hangs self in toilet while in police custody”(THT, Mar. 19, Page 1). It’s a very sad news that a 42-year-old woman of Thakre, Dhading, facing fraud charges was found dead in the custody of Metropolitan Police Circle. It’s even more shocking and sad that due to pressure and stress from her lenders for paying back the loan and returning the gold kept as guarantee for the cash she committed suicide. She was trying her best to pay back the loan but the lenders pressurized and threatened to kill her and the entire family if she did not repay. 

In fact, lenders had thought that she would repay the loan if she was pressurised, but it backfired with her suicide. 

The game called “dhukuti” that she is reported to have been playing is a dangerous one where fraud is very common. Though it is illegal, the people ‘play’ it in the sly. Thorough investigation has to be conducted to find out the real facts. 

Another aspect that is not comprehensible is how she could commit suicide inside the police station. This reveals that there is lack of proper security even inside police custody.

Moin Uddin, 

Ghattekulo, Kathmandu 


(Published in the newspaper TheHimalayanTimes at page 8(March21,2012,wednesday)

Good friends we meet

Friend....Someone whom we need every now and then.They play a great role in one's life.Without friend there is almost no existence of oneself. No-matter people say,"we can live alone.why should i need any of the friend?I can enjoy my life alone." In real sense they are faking their-self.Every living creature present in this world need friends.
There are many people who have uncountable friends.But are they really friends? In-fact many of them would say yes and many of them would say NO.It's on one's perception.
I do have numerous friends.Hey HEy....NO they aren't? I know many of the people by their faces and some by their names.They come to attend office or let's say college sometimes in a month.They shake hands with me and later moves on.I think you also have faced the same thing like me,Isn't it?Do you consider them your friends?....Hummm various answers popping up,right?
In this fast moving world.I am blessed with very countable friends,whom i respect and value them a lot.Though I've not known them much but they truly deserve respect. OK i am putting their names over here.Let's start with my college friend,Mahendra Pandey.He is a very sweet guy.Has a soft corner for everyone.Enjoys quality time being with me as we talk a lot and i truly respect him.Next one is Bikee Dangol.He is a fan of Metal Songs.Let me be specific he loves listening Death Metal.Runs a shoe shop at lagankhel.He doesn't talk much but enjoys listening me and giving his opinion on it.And here comes the beautiful lady "Bina Hamal",Yes she is beautiful,having great thoughts and has an ambition in her life,which makes me feel proud being friend of her's. In-fact in a short period of time we got closer and she knows me more than any-other else.Many times i've loose my temper and at that moment she counsels me which makes me feel good.May GOD bless her.And next is Anit kunwar.Though we have studied at same college for Bachelors initially at Modern Nepal College(BBS 1st year). In-fact we both left that college coincidentally just studying 3 months.He moved to another college and i came to Nepal Commerce Campus (NCC).Later while studying BBS 3rd year,he came to take class at NCC and than we met.He is a good guy.Want to be a good businessman later in future also he is good at studies and sometimes we debate.
How can i forget my friend Nabindra man Shakya.He is the one who helped me to improve my studies.He want to be an Accountant.Some years back while we were walking he told me his wish to ferry by a Black,shiny car.Wearing Suit and tie to his office.Hummmm.....Yes, everyone desires, isn't it?Nabindra my friend,I pray and hope that your dream comes true one day soon.
Now here comes my childhood (home and school) friend Anup Tuladhar.I've known him since we were studying at class two at JAMUNA MEMORIAL ENGLISH BOARDING SCHOOL,Ghattekulo.Now not in existence.we lived nearer.At school we used to have lots of fun.I remember playing kung fu with my friends at school in the breaktime.Infact there used to be one TV channel named Home TV.There used to come Kung Fu serial and we used to copy the character.I was named "Chithar kothar".While studying in class three,in the break time while playing kung fu with my friends,I punched one of my friend "Shreeman"as ditto as shown in the Kung fu serial.He flew farther and fell down and cried.I was laughing and felt proud:),i was thinking how come i have gained lot's of power? I then said
yahoooo....but felt afraid later as he was badly hurt and was crying :((.....Ahhh...I remember those wonderful days.Anup, yes ,infact he is the one of my oldest friend till yet having contact with.His life these days have been bit difficult.I pray to GOD that all his problems fades away soon.
Friends provide great relief.Sharing problems,Having a sip of tea and smoking at the same time, lending a shoulder to lean on it is one of the greatest and wonderful thing to cherish for.Talking talking talking a lot regarding any topic while walking,running or sitting on a floor is something every good friends enjoys and i do enjoy that a lot.


One thing is for sure thay are so special that the world will need them soon and hey hey i am their friend and am too special... ha ha..we all are special indeed:)

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

I think i am in love with you

It's a beautiful morning
I am thinking something good to do
Hey baby,I think i am in love with you.

Is it looking your eyes
or is it your smile
I care baby,
I think i am in love with you..

Well i notice you,every time,
you look so beautiful
o o o o ya o o
We can just chat it up
we can just hang it up
Infact we do. o ya
Infact we do, we talk everytime,
may it be something good o ya
i think i am in love with you

It's a beautiful morning
I am thinking something good to do
Hey baby,I think i am in love with you.

Is it looking your eyes
or is it your smile
I care baby,
I think i am in love with you..

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

Value of time

Time Cannot be brought back
Time cannot be sealed
Why people don't understand this
As time spent disrespectfully hurts more and more.

Time is so valuable
No body can pay for it later
If spent without thinking of it
Will make you soon a begger.

Time makes people rich
Time makes people poor
Let's start respecting it
And do our work accordingly

Time makes people together
Relations gets Even more stronger
Life fills with good thing ever
Don't you believe me? you will know it later

Time makes relation get sour
Indeed it pinches you harder
Never ignore anyone's time
You'll never know,who gonna penalises you with fine.

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

Misunderstanding

Thinking lots of thing in mind
Don't know what gonna be mine.
Never thought I will be here
Never thought i will be there

You have all the right to think anything of me
I am bad,I am mean,I am selfish,Each and Everything
I don't have to please your everytime
Just to maintain a good relationship
I don't have to say always a good thing
If you just keep on troubling me.

We have been a very good friend
But simple carelessness has made us far away
Wherever you go my friend
I pray and respect you every now and then.....:)

[Written this for my friend Rita Budhathoki
this is my apology poem
Hope so someday
She'll get to know about it.But when???   God knows   :) ]

Instrumental songs

Listening instrumental songs is a great way of enjoying one's time.There are such many moments in a day that we want to listen something but not songs.We also don't want to hear news or any programs on Radio or in Television but want something pleasant that we would like it to flow with us. Something that uplifts our mood and you know what?What can be that???? Hummmmm....If you ask me, i would say Instrumental songs.Yes,it's a song but it doesn't include any lyrics or any voice in it.It includes only music,,,music,,,music and only music.

I most of the time listen to this particular genre of music which makes me feel like,I am in my own world where i can put anything on it.I mean i can design anything.Well well i can put any words in it as it's only the music and on it i can bang my head or do any crazy stuffs which i like.
Many people are there like me who do agree with me that they like and enjoy listening to the instrumental songs.Didn't you?

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo, Kathmandu

Battle

Having battle with my heart
Having Armaggedon with myself
I don't know when this fight will stop
I don't know will i win or not

Having battle between Heart and Brain
Having battle between Tears and smile
These two special things are mine
But today they want to get apart every time

Having battle between Money and Passion
Having battle between My desire and your desire
I don't want to loose me and You
I really want to be with you...:)

Joining The Nepal Army

Joining the Nepal Army

PRAVAT JUNG GURUNG KATHMANDU, March 19: The decade-long insurgency came to an end with the end of monarchy in 2006, leaving thousands dead and even more handicapped and the Maoist Party entering mainstream politics. The integration of PLA soldiers into the national army, Nepal Army, is to begin soon, if the leaders are to be taken seriously. All along, a group of new Nepal Army soldier enthusiasts are all set to apply for positions in the prestigious institution. The prestige one holds after joining the national army is incomparable, so says 20-year-old Biraz Singh Khadka. He has been working out to serve the country for the past two years and is excited to apply for a job soon in the security force. “I went for a short training in Chitwan last year, so I could prepare myself and learn the ‘know how’s’ of the army, and that got me even more excited,” says Biraz. His uncle is in the army and his dad always wanted to be one. “My dad couldn’t make it because he was underweight and wanted me to join, and I’ve always wanted to serve the nation and be excited about it at the same time,” he shares. Moin Uddin, 22, on the other hand, wants to join the army because, according to him, the prestige, facilities and the opportunities you get in the long run are something to look forward to, and being in the army excites him more than anything else. “My family isn’t really supporting me but I want to join the security force because nothing excites me more than to be in the green and black patched clothing,” he says. Moin’s parents live in Kathmandu and want him to have a proper paying job, start supporting the family and hold a certain reputation in the society, something that, perhaps, all parents will want for their children and is not wrong to think so. As a parent, you will always want your children to self-sustain and reach a certain level. Both are young, enthusiastic and excited to apply for the demanding post of Second Lieutenant in the next opening of the national army, both the lads run everyday followed by rigorous workouts. One has to be mentally and physically fit to join the force and once you are in, the strict discipline, less family time, are just some of the sacrifices one has to make. “I really wanted to make a tattoo but I can’t because the army doesn’t allow it. But I’m okay with it because if I get in, it’s all going to be worth it,” says a smiling Biraz, who is also doing his Bachelor’s at the moment at Ace Institute of Management. “If I don’t get into the army, I’ll try in the other security forces (Nepal Police and Armed Police Force) and if that doesn’t work out either, I’ll be working in the media field, as I am doing now,” he shares. Moin, on the other hand, besides dreaming of being with the army, has dreamt of being a writer and will continue his journey in the field of literature if he doesn’t succeed getting in. When asked if they have ever given a thought about the financial aspect, Moin quickly replies, “The salary will be less but the sense of satisfaction you’re going to get will, hopefully, overpower the financial bit.” Echoing the same, Biraz is fine with the pay but adds that it’s definitely going to be difficult with the ever increasing inflation and skyrocketing prices of commodities. “It’s not only the pay, but the job also requires you to study a lot as you move up the position, and it’s very tough,” he says, and it’s something both of them are willing to do along with the risk that comes attached with the job. The two of them also add that they will get to travel the country, go places, and help people and, if opportunity arises, they will also get to travel abroad for trainings and also jobs through the army. “I’ve seen a lot of people, even my friends for that matter, applying for British and Indian Army and, frankly even I did think of applying because the pay and perks is something that lures most of the young but then I thought why not my own national army?” says Biraz, as Moin adds in a very positive tone, “It’s going to be a privilege for us to work for our own army if we’re selected.” (This article was published in the newspaper Republica on  March 19 2012, Monday)

Music AND ME

There was a time when i almost many times have killed myself.Hey...NO NO NO,what you may be thinking is wrong.Not physically,I mean my using knife,blade,rope or any other stuffs  No NO NO.However i've killed my self mentally.The frustration,sadness, loneliness.I have always been fighting with all these negative emotions and luckily till yet i've been sucessful in defeating it with the positive music.Yes,MUSIC.Music has played a great role in my life.It has motivated me,inspired me a lot.Infact it has been one of my best friend.There have been many moments in which it has helped me and counselled me more nicely and positively than my other life having friends.
Having music as a best friend is one of the blissful thing.The positive lyrics,its
soulful music,its sweet and commanding voice has made me change my perception.It has made me able to dive in the ocean of imagination.Infact i've been a good swimmer.i dive deep and swim swiftly and come out from it,with having a relaxed feeling.
These days i am listening to the song "WAKE UP SID" from the movie wake up sid.IT's so appealing.It tells to move ahead,do something new,don't waste time.Even if you can't do anything than just laugh or cry but do something.Also the song"JUNOON" from the movie Newyork has made me keep my enthusiasm level intact.
There is a song "ISILIFEMEIN" sung by Mohit Chauhan.It's lyrics and music is so
good.It tells to explore your life now,don't wait for another life.It also says "Don't Stop
Yourself Come Out And Reach Out,Now This Is Your Chance Come Out And Reach Out".Oh....the lyrics is so so so good and makes me feel that life is not to be meant just to do 1 ,2 things. instead, life is meant to explore and experience many many new and happening things.
Music,Yes Music.It's my best buddy.Whenever i feel low, i want someone to tell me some good things,which my collection of music tells me every now and then and whenever i feel good ,my best friend music itself is there with me to enjoy my happiness.Also when i feel agressive then also there is my music"Metal SONGS" which fuells and aggravates my energy.
Music:) i laugh music...I talk music and  i say  let's enjoy and share our feelings
with music:)
-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

I can't stop being nice

I can't stop being nice.
This has let me to suffer many times.
Many have broken my aspirations
From which i've gone through bad situations

There are people who need help
I try my best to reach their by self
I can't understand what they have in their mind
But i only know i must help them for betterment of their life

I expect that their remain loyal
Be the same as what they say them to be in trouble.
For one day they seem they truly respect
But their commitments and hopes fades away the next day.

I get hurt many times
I feel bad thinking why i've been so close with them
Even i know, i will be broken many times
But i can't stop being nice.....

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

Pain and Gain

Pain......humm? Yes pain.....what came into your mind thinking about pain?.......Can pain be enjoyed?.......There may be various answer to this and many of them may be wondering how can pain be enjoyed? Isn't it? OK OK I have one of my friend who suffer a lot from Migraine.Since last 8 years he is suffering from Migraine and it has been only 6 years that the doctor approved it.So, what is Migraine?Though he told me many things regarding it.However I turned the pages of Oxford Dictionary and found that "A very severe type of headache which often makes a person feel sick and have difficulty in seeing."So this was what written in the dictionary.
I told you I've one such friend who suffers from Migrane....Very often....And i feel lucky to have him as my friend.He is inspiring.He is funny.He is genius in his own way.While having conversation with him, i came to knew about the migraine that he is suffering from.He tells me,How it feels like?The severe pain.The whole attention only into the pain.He says me he feels like,the devastating volcano erupting.He also says that he feels like someone is cutting his head with an axe.The pain,The severe pain.And later says he enjoys it.He has started taking pleasure from the pain.Isn't it wonderful?
Taking pleasure from the pain is an Art,a wonderful Art that he has cultivated within himself.So,Is there any medical treatements to cure migrane? I asked and you know what he says"I've been to numerous doctors,Had done many X-rays,Many medicines has been prescribed,but the pain only slows when having medicine but gradually starts up when the dose starts loosing its power.
He has said one good thing which i think everybody should follow.He has said"You only cultivate pain,when you think of pain." and i think he is true.He says me we are the master.whether to suffer a lot from it or to slower and to control the pain."
I asked him whether it has affected your daily life?and he says"No NOt At all.....yes, for some definite period it hampers but its normal.See me, i am healthy.I do my work.I go to attend Spanish class.I do graphic designing.And you know,I am attending the classes of College too." and i smiled:)
People who are suffering from migrane should learn that"Life has not hurt you.Infact you are hurting yourself  by thinking life has been miserable.why only i am suffering from this? so this sort of negative question about yourelf should be changed immediately to positive ones.Instead go and explore your life.Forget the pain and you are the master of yourself.You can do everyother thing.Believe me:)

(Inspired by my friend Kathik which i thought of writing and to share it with you.)

-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

The Puff

I can't stop being nice.Which has put me in trouble many times.there are people who are in trouble and by seeing and knowing their problems,I can't stop myself helping them.I try my best to help them in every situations,In every circumstances but they take so easily which frustrates me every now and then.Meanwhile i have even hurt myself by helping those people.Once few months back i had lend money to one of my colleagues.he said me he had a problem and assured me to return within 3 months.I without hesitation lent the money.It's almost a year that he has not returned my money but makes lots of excuses. In fact i am

feeling embarassed rather than him to ask my own money.However i can't stop being nice. There was also a moment in my college where some students used to come regularly to study.But many students were in a class so they should stand or go out of the class.I saw them,felt that they are good students,they wanted to study and i used to keep seat for  them,for few days they came to study regularly but as time went by they didn't came to the college.Before,while talking, they used to say that they have some problems and due to
this very reason they could not attend the class early.I've been so close with them, In fact that was only my misconception.They have used me,my genuineness,my loyalty, for their betterment.
I felt bad,felt lonely. I used to smoke but it was way back that i'd stopped smoking.However due to loneliness and frustration i began taking puffs.I felt good,every puff used to satisfy my frustration.I began thinking that I've someone who is better than physical and live friends.After last puff from that cigarette i again came to my normal life i.e the same frustrating life,thinking of that old people whom I've helped and their light behavior towards me,which fueled my anger every now and then.
I am cool by my nature.So,i don't show or do any act which is going to harm me or any other person.But deep inside i am hurting myself more often.
Smoking Is Injurious To health.
-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

Infatuation

There is an old and evergreen Nepali lok song and many of them know about it.The song is "Nakkali Lai Bhagai Lagyo Jhilke Le".It is sung by veteran singer Saroj Gopal.This song is all about infatuation.Many guys do like a girl but one of the guy takes her at the end.The song is so beautiful,be it it's music,Lyrics,Vocal,mixing,instruments used in it,everything is really really good. In fact two of it's part of lyrics has touched me a lot.And it is"Timi Hami Bhanesi,Hurukkai Tini Hunthin Re.Dui Char Din Katai Gaye Samjhi Samjhi Runthin Re".
Why i am talking about this part is that there used to be a girl,whom i have thought as a friend initially.We used to chitchat a lot. In fact we have been like a best friend.I didn't knew she liked me.For some days i didn't went to the college and after few days i came to knew from my close friend that she felt lonely in the class and cried secretly in her home.Though there were many other guys who they used to like her.
And the next part of lyrics is"Na Ta Kahile Bheteko,Na Ta Kahile Dekheko,Tye Mori Nakkali Lai Mohani Lagai Diyo Re".This part also has some connection with my original life.Once few years back i used to talk with a girl over phone.We exchanged our phone number while chatting and took our relation to the higher level.Though it's not so so higher but just the one step further after chat.She used to call me a lot and i used to text her.For several months we talked over phone.At that time i have had only created the imagination about her.we were talking like boyfriend and girlfriend.However the most interesting and amazing part was we never met.We used to say someday soon we'll meet but that day didn't came.Slowly i started neglecting her text and phone calls as i thought we are not meant for each other.Though i respect her and also her voice was beautiful.
Infact these days people are starting to romance online.Many youths use social networking sites and this has somehow brought negative impact on youths by sending friend request to the girl having beautiful profile pictures which can also be fake ones.And after they confirm the friend request then the flirting part starts from both sides.If the Girl is good then she knows the intention of the boy and then goes offline or block him.
Infatuation starts from the Very beginning.It can be by looking to her beautiful face,eyes, hair,complexion or it can be by the deep voice of a boy or by his fashion and styles.
Sometimes infatuation can leads us in a big trouble.It can cause disputes between two good friends.Many youths be it boys or girls gets infatuated to each other and says they love each other. In fact in a real sense which is not.They go beyond extremes and takes a wrong decision by indulging in bad and illegal things and end up life regretting it.
So,by conducting seminars,Plays,Films or counselling may help youths to differentiate between love and infatuation.Open communication between parents,teachers,friends,brother,sister has to be encouraged and the question that these youth arise should be answered by those whom they have asked.Also without any hesitation they should reply.By doing so it'll help youths to take their life to the better path.
In last, infatutation  itself is the begging of starting to love.
-Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

College life

College life is an amazing,interesting and education attaing life.Though from the tender age we all are attaining some education.be it from our teachers,siblings or any other
incidents.we all are gaining lessons.
However these all above mentioned are only the phases where we learn the basic thing. In fact college life is one of the place where we get to specialize in our desired subject.It shapes our passion and interest into the concrete form.It helps us to build our confidence.
Beside education we get more special things.The friends we meet are going to last for ever.Though many of them may say how are the friends of college going to last forever? In fact there will be many students in a college having various interest and background but only those friend will be with us forever having similar likes and dislikes and who care for us the most.It's a place to build a strong relationship not only with the friends we meet regularly but also with the teachers and other staffs.Be it a sweeper or
the cleaner or the owner of the canteen.It's an opportunity to be part of them and to create a special place in their heart.
College life is not only meant to study and to meet with friends but also to have fun.friends play an important role to make the environment more funnier.I once along with my close friends had done a prank with teacher,later we got punishment,but we had a fun.What we did was,we didn't want to study,we were feeling bored and i came up with an idea to have fun.i told it to my friends.We planned to give a miscall in every one minute.so what we did was,all five of us had a phone number of a teacher.We gave miscall
time and again.everytime he used to go out of the class to pick up the phone and we used to cut it.Next day he checked all our phone numbers in a college register and found that we were the ones to irritate him.We were given a harsh punishment along with warning.However we had a fun.i am not advising to do like what we did but we should enjoy in the meantime.
while teachers come to teach us.sometimes there would arise some funny questions and we exaggerate it a lot and whole period gets busy by our silly questions.
However college life is that phase of life where we get infatuated with opposite sex.If not controlled the desire than it may turn disastrous.There are also such students who only come to have fun rather than to study and disturb the whole class.Many gang-fights do occur just to show the supremacy.
Yes, college life is interesting and we should explore our capabilities and build a strong relationship with everyone.The thing we do becomes a memorable memory.so,lets do great work.let's make our teacher's proud by studying smart and also by attaining higher marks in board exams.let's make our parents proud by fulfilling their dreams of their child becoming a successful person in his/her own life by studying and participating in college activities.and lastly let's make proud of we ourselves by fulfilling our own dreams and
desires.Happy College life:)
=Moin Uddin,Ghattekulo,Kathmandu

Women Power

Women Power

I am always and more and more fascinated by the success of women and I truly do respect them and share their life stories with others to motivate other similar ladies who have potential but have not gone through it. They are the ones who are actual change makers. 

However they lack confidence within themselves. I have met lots of Women in my life. Some have accomplished huge success and some due to lack of confidence are sitting just idle cursing their own fate.

Some women are there in the history as well as some are doing great thing. There are some women whom we can feel proud of .Melba Devi Gurung is the 1st women to record song in India in 1928 and became the 1st Nepali women to record a song. Bindeshwari Shah became the first Female ambassador and worked in India during 1989-90. Dwarika Devi Thakurani was appointed as a 1st female minister of Nepal in 1960. Rakshya Rana, at the age of 24 she became the 1st Nepali lady to fly in the air also she is the 1st Nepali Women Pilot of Nepal.

Few months back we marked 102nd women's day on 8th march, with national and international slogans as " Lets End Violence against Women: Lets Maintain Zero Tolerance" and "Connecting girls; Inspiring Future".
 

Despite trying our best efforts we are still facing severe problems. Time and again many brutal cases regarding women are being heard. Our women's are being raped, molested as well as sold to the brothels and also they are beaten up severely if they do not agree with their in-laws, mostly these cases are heard from the limited educated and conservative people. 

Lots of organizations have raised concern regarding empowering women. And I know that it's for their betterment.

But, what if when the women herself doesn't start her career or stay positive? What if, she only thinks her life is very useless? I cannot do anything in my life? I am born to face difficulties only?

So it's a matter of concern for every one of us to counsel those ladies mentally. Only raising voices in the auditorium or say in any other streets won't help those ladies to start their life with courage and determination. Suitable Jobs should be created for them and also their interest has to be nurtured, by doing so we can at least help them to believe in their own strengths. Let's contribute from our side to help our ladies to achieve success in their life. This will ultimately help us and help Our Nepal to prosper, economically as well as globally.

Moin Uddin

moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Ghattekulo,Kathmandu 

Running to Achieve a Goal

As we look into the dictionary meaning of Run than it is written"To move using your legs,going faster than when you walk". We run for various purposes.While in a hurry we run to catch a bus or to meet the deadline we run to reach to the destination prior to the deadline.In our day to day life we run every-now and then.
There are many people who have their own purposes in life.They all run almost everyday.We can see the obsessed people running to loose his/her excessive weight.We can also see the athletics running to improve his/her timing.Cricketers run to set a huge running target.Footballers run every-now and then to score a goal.Almost in every outdoor sports people tend to run.
I want to join the Nepal Army.I enquired all the requirements for the recruitment purpose and one of it was to complete a 2 miles running in 17 minutes.Since then i wake up early.I put on my running shoes on the feet and start to run to accomplish the goal.
Running is not so easy as what t seems to be.We see almost every age of people running with ease but the reality is not that.It is not a one day process. In fact lots of energy is required to run.Stamina has to be maintained.Regular practice has to be done to improve the running.Many people gets fascinated at first seeing many others running with ease but when they come to the ground and start to run,after few minutes they come to know the exact truth.Their stamina starts to fade out.
However running has many benefits.It helps to loose excessive weght.It helps in circulating the blood.It also helps in building stamina.Muscles starts to take its mature shape.Body becomes strong.Timing of the sports that many of them are having like cricket,football,marathon can be improved.Brain gets oxygen. In fact it also helps in making one's day happy and beautiful.It helps in reducing stress.As people who run early in the morning feel active and energetic throughout the day.
So, there may arise a question"What is the best way of running?""How can we improve our running timing?".So the first thing is that we should be mentally as well as physically fit to run.We should not run very fast in the beginning.As almost everyone have read the story of a "Rabbit and tortoise" where tortoise wins a race at the end.We should start slow.It helps in maintaining stamina.Many people loose their stamina in a few
seconds of running as they think that running fast will help them,which is not true. In fact many people link running means to run fast which is just a misunderstanding.
If we run fast our leg's muscles will be not able to get the required oxygen and it starts loosing it's pace.So starting slow is the best.For example if you want to run 3 kilometers than what you should do is to run slowly as if you are walking, this will help you to maintain the stamina.Run later after you think like you have recovered.
Run,Run,Run to accomplish your goal and to stay fit and healthy.HAPPy RUNNING:)

-Moin Uddin,Nepal Commerce Campus, Kathmandu