Chances of Love

Moin Uddin

Kathmandu

The desire for love is so strong that we cannot hold the emotions to ourselves. Everyone wants to be loved. But we often feel hesitant to express and accept love because of our own insecurities. 

And, we often also get entangled in rejecting certain people because we’ve been rejected at some point of time. There certainly is some reason, and I think that should be mentioned in a clear way so that both hearts feel at ease to let go or accept the proposal.

I personally know the pain of rejection and also the joy of acceptance, but trying repeatedly and starting it all over again with a different person after each failed attempt is really a Hercules tasks. Well, the intention is pure and the tryouts are all for good reasons, but with few exceptions there are people who seek flirty pleasure in the name of love. 

However, there will be some genuine people who want to be in real relationships as well. But again, early tryouts of getting to know people are most often taken as cheesy.

I am writing all this from my own personal experience and I do not feel hesitant to write that I too have been a part of this phase like many others. Many hide this secret side but it’s no shame in being real. 

Like others, I too have tried many times which didn’t work out. The main reason for my failures was being different in terms of religion. Well, if this can be solved then almost everything will fall in place for me. 

It feels so strange to go through this process and believe me; it is tedious to make an impact on the heart of the ones whom we are trying to impress. Every failure pinches and every tryout is same, as love for the opposite sex has all the elements of joy, excitement and risk involved. 

The most important thing is that you never let the daring side of expressing your real feelings to the ones you love fade away. It is said that winners never quit and quitters never win. Chase your love as this is one of the most exciting aspects in one’s life that won’t wait forever. But, beware!

Published on a newspaper myRepublica's MyCity on  October 30, 2017 08:14 AM Moin Uddin