I wonder how would life be?

MOIN UDDIN

How would life be if I've a girlfriend? (Girlfriend for those boys who are single and viceversa) How would my day would be like? How would she treat me? What would I be doing all the time? I wonder my life would  be so romantic. I think I would text her with romantic messages on it and hang up on phone whole day and night talking about romantic things and making her laugh by telling her poems and all. Well most of us keep on dreaming about having a special one to fill a void in this our empty life, isn't it?

Everyone wants someone to take care of them. We all demand love and respect as well as care from the one we expect love. We all want to be treated like a prince and princess. We want to be the one in the millions and also want that our beloved ones gives us 100 percent attention than to anything else. We want our dear ones to give us gift with romantic messages on it when we meet every-time. We want to hang out together anywhere with hands on hands and especially at a place where there is serene environment with a silence speaking loud telling I want you and to be yours forever and I want the same from you with the heads on our beloved shoulder and saying a caring word with an inquisitive smile with innocent look.

I recently read a romantic book of William Shakespeare's  "Romeo and Juliet". Though it was published way back however, I got an opportunity to read it in one of the library. Almost in 3 days everything happens and ends. At first Romeo meets Juliet and they fall for each other at a first sight. Second, they get intimately close and wanted to get married and at third day Romeo dies unknowingly thinking Juliet is dead and commits suicide and later Juliet wakes up and find Romeo dead and ultimately she too kills herself. I do believe in love at first sight but I wonder how can a huge thing can happen in just a 3 days despite people try so much in years but could not make through it that much as in the book written by Shakespeare.

I've seen my friends romancing with their girlfriends and they urge me to have one and enjoy the moment like them and I say OH, I think I should have one and then I just get out of the conversation as quickly as possible. Next day when I see them, I could see the contrasting thing. Each of my friend with their partners have now parted their ways and to my surprise I see my friend with their partners but this time with the new ones.

I wonder again how can love be so cheap? Unlike on Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet meets and dies together but here in this modern world if vested interest are not to be get fulfilled than each of them start searching for the one who can live up to their interest. I also think that it require skills and talent to make a boyfriend or girlfriend in a short span of time and I console myself thanking God for providing me with the talents to write and speak with right tone, pitch and melody to impress and inspire others and in the long run girls waiting for me in a Que just to meet me. And now I again wonder, how would life be then?

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo,Kathmandu ( 9841689437)

Dress Matters A Lot

MOIN UDDIN
Our life is always in a rush. We almost forget everything. What is the most important are tend to be remembered and if that is also kept on our mind or if it is in our to do list then only otherwise due to busy schedule we almost forget everything. We work day and night and we do achieve some goal and are happy to acquire that. We may be a multitask-er and why not? These days are the generation of multi-tasking and those who can use it and know the importance of it will get maximum out of it. To be in the race we almost get all the training's and sharpen our skills. We groom our-self by going to the various institutes and also build confidence at the same time. However there is one thing that most of us don't give priority to. We take it lightly but it is the important part of making oneself attractive and that is to dress properly.
Yes, this is one of the most important part that we don't give priority much. We say what is in there on
the cloth. I have talent, I am good in every-work I do. I am liked and praised by many people. So, do dress
matter? Well most people question this and are in illusion by what they hear from the people.
Our co-workers, family members, friends may praise our talents. They may say good words for doing
all the task with promptness. Nevertheless, if not in-front of you, they'll for sure talk behind you regarding your clothes. Just imagine how would you feel when you'll know that your near and dear ones are talking about your clothes? If they'll say good about it then you'll feel great and when they'll comment bad about it then, how would you feel? You may not think that you are being judged. However directly, indirectly we are being judged and looked up by many people. Only our talents and skills are not enough to be be competent. We need to dress appropriately.
Here is a basic rule of getting dressed. You just need to spare some time of yours to look good. Light color highlight and dark colors obscure. For instance, if you like your shoulders but you are not fond of your legs then you might try wearing dark wash jeans and a light colored T-shirt. You need to determine whether you look better in white or off white. Same is the case with other colors. If you want to look cool then you can try wearing clothes of blue, purple, dark green and blue based red and if you want to look warm and to be praised by other at the same time then you can try wearing clothes of yellow, orange, brown and yellow based red color.
The important clothes that we must stock in our wardrobe are solid-color polo shirts, solid or plaid
button up shirt, dark blue jeans, plain white and black T-shirts, a solid color blazer, dark dress trouser, a dark and well fitting jacket, lace up dress shoe and white sneakers. You'll always be able to put together a
presentable outfit from those pieces.
Properly dressed people are confident also are presentable and praised more and are popular more
enough than those who do not dress properly. Sometimes dress can also have an effect on your career. Well
dressed people are preferred , liked and approached to the various work. There promotion are likely to be done and can achieve more than those who dress inappropriately.
Let's give priority in grooming our-self and to dress properly , :)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu (9841689437) I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Perseverence Pays

MOIN UDDIN
Is everything good? Are you alright? How has been the task? Was it easy? or was it difficult? Well these all are some inquisitive questions asked most often to the ones who have just gave his performance in front of the masses. We are judged not on our efforts but on the performance and this is the universal phenomenon.
However, perhaps I don't get the exact expectation of the people. They are normally heavier on the
both ends. Some say to the ones who have just lost the game that you've not gave your 100 percent, your effort was not up-to the mark and on the other hand some say, your performance was good, you gave your 100 percent.However  I get confused over here. Those who win are said to be given their 100 percent effort and their performance made them feel good and those who lose are said, you were weak and the efforts of yours was not satisfactory, so you lost. Is winning means giving 100 percent effort and loosing means not giving 100 percent effort? No, this is not true but the society perceives it true and we are no exception of it as we live in these societies.
While I was a child, I had a friend. We were good friends. We used to roam around on our bicycles till
late. In fact before being friend, there used to be a ground and we used to play a cycle race and blocking. In
which who blocks the other cyclist and remains on his bicycle till the last without letting his leg on the ground
would win. There used to be many cyclist and he was one of them. I always used to win and called a champion by those boys. In spite of good efforts they used to lose. They used to try their best to make me lose but their hard efforts would go in vain and again I used to win. After several weeks, a boy, similar to my age came and asked, in-spite of good efforts we lose and you would win. Can you teach me how to perform better? And I told him to practice perseverance and also to have dedication into the game than to win. He then watched me play and mastered the art that I would use and slowly he started applying my technique and would win. So, it's not about giving your 100 percent effort or performance. In spite of great efforts, perhaps we lose and the solution for it is to be quite and to practice perseverance and to have devotion in ones goal. From that day on we are good friends till yet.
Efforts are not rewarded only performance are rewarded and to perform better we had to have lots of
qualities. First, we should have a clear goal. Second, we need to have training regarding it. You may want to be a winner in your interested field but in the midst there are many talented people who are too eyeing for the title. So, in-order to perform better you need to have special training's to polish your skills to perform better. The third essential qualities needed to perform better is to have a dedication towards your goal. How passionate are you to achieve your goal? You need to have lots of devotion in it like a Prahlad having lots of devotion towards lord Bishnu. And the fourth and the most important qualities needed to perform better is to have perseverance. How much can you wait to get there? This is the most challenging and difficult part as it checks your Patience. It is rightly said that those who persevere will perform better also would inspire and impress lots of people at the same time.

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu (9841689437) I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Positive Thinking

MOIN UDDIN
From my childhood I used to read  lots of books, newspapers, magazines, flairs, anything which I would get or see, I used to read them all and till yet I do the same. My childhood has not been like other normal child enjoys. I began mature sooner than my age. Is being mature sooner a crime? Even if it is not, it brings lots of changes in ones behavior. I've been the victim of many negative thoughts. My friend enjoying his childhood by dong crazy things and enjoying being with girls started bullying me but I never gave them a damn. I was in search of something. I don't what, however from my early life I started thinking of my career, studies, money and so on. As I've seen my parents life shaking. I also wanted the luxurious things like other child have had. I used to say it to my parents but all my desires would go in vain. Sooner I started realizing that life is not a bed of roses. To get what you want, you have to work hard. You have to give your 100 percent in achieving them. Subconsciously these all thoughts started coming into my mind and slowly my behavior started to change. My friend started thinking and saying I am going wild at the same time behaving differently as a big person's would do. However I thought, I am same like them but I was not.
               I never had been a class topper except at class Nursery. I was an average student but disciplined and inquisitive. So, this helped me to be nearer in front of my teacher eyes.
               Life is really beautiful. To know this fact it took me 22 years. I've so much of desires and hobbies which I really wanted to get fulfilled. I used to try but would fail. Many times I've cried secretly. Shed my tears for not getting fulfilled my dreams. I used to curse my fate as others would get it easily by just saying it to their parents that they wanted those things, which I would get only after lots of hard-work. Unknowingly I started watching movies, television shows also I have had read books regarding leadership, motivation, time management, communication and so on. This have had led me to change my life.
              Don't you think our life in-fact universe itself is full of positive energy? Think critically. I see everywhere the positive vibes. Even a beggar begging on the road or a patient returning home after treatment teach us many good things. We just need to see only the positive aspect of it. We can learn many positive things even from a newly born child. Their innocence. smile, giggle, cradle these all teach us many positive things. Rain coming from dark clouds also has a positive message on it. While walking, talking, writing, cooking we can learn the positive aspect of it. By applying positive things perhaps could shape our life into good ones, than why not adopt and copy that, isn't it?
            Life is full of positive energy, even if you cry there is always a good reason in it as the tears help your
eyes to get cleaned. Positive energy is everywhere, you just need to charge your mind with listening, hearing,
touching, smelling, seeing, and  feeling the good things. Happy day ahead.

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu (9841689437) I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Gloomy side of Nepali Movie

MOIN UDDIN
Whenever I get leisure time I go to the nearby movie shop, but DVD and return back home and watch movie however these days I've been a movie fanatic more often. I go to the theater to watch it. Wow, isn't it good? Going to the theater and getting to watch a new movie with the latest technology used and the story slightly changed with the Cinematography, artist and director almost new.
        I reminisce going to a Gopi Krishna Movies the only nearby theater with my parents and relatives to watch a new movie. It used to be so fun and the theater almost houseful. We used to prepare popcorn from home and used to take inside to enjoy having it while watching movie. I sometime would shed tears when a hero would die leaving heroine alone at the end of the movie. It used to be a family movie where all the family members would sit, laugh, shed tears, sing and comment together. It was 18 years ago but now it's almost impossible to sit with family members and watch a movie in-fact watching daily soap (serial) these days need separate T.V at different rooms.
      I wonder our Nepali movie were so good. We had our typical story. The costumes wore by the actors would reflect the National identity. The locations would tell us about our Terai, Mountain and Hilly regions. Songs would have national feeling but hardly we can see and feel them these days.
       The recent what so called a successful movie " Loot" has tried to show the different but true aspect of  the social problems but in the name of reality the language used here was not appropriate and the songs like
"Udhereko Choli" has really a catchy tune but the dance shown by what so called a hot actress of Nepali movie these days have gone through the extent that it only excites the sexual desire of general people and nothing more than that could be felt from that song. The similar movie is Chapali Height, though it has earned a large sum of income but that was not worth. Also now the upcoming Nepali movie ATM has been airing its promo through various media channels. It has used the sex to its full extent, that watching it on the T.V makes us (Viewer) feel shame. My friend came and said me regarding it, to write an article to aware people about the negative aspect of Nepali movie so that it could help control. We have responsibilities towards society and its people. In the name of reality we can't show everything publicly.
       I am not against portraying sex on the movie but the whole Nepali movie should not be like a porn movie. It can be portrayed decently. We have our own culture, tradition, social problems, festivals, and so on. Most of the actors, directors, producers, cinematographers, script writer are all well trained and are also the research minded ones. We just want Nepali movies to be the one where all the family members could sit and enjoy watching it. Rather than censor board giving a certificate of adult movie or P.G( parental guide) certificate.
     We want our unexplored locations to be shown on the movie rather than showing the foreign lands. Directors should bring the fresh idea to use those locations to its maximum so that there might be good possibilities of flourishing tourism industry and in the long run everyone would get benefit from it and the movie would be more good to watch with the sense of pride saying YES this is our Nepali Movie.

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu (9841689437) I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Don't tie dreams

MOIN UDDIN
We the youths of today's generation want to do very much for the world, our country and for the society. We have lots of energy and passion which if utilized now can reap the good fruits in near future. We have so much of zeal to do any work according to our potential. But the problem lies here, who are there to understand us? Who are there to recognize our talents? Who are there to use our talents so that we can help and contribute to the society? Who are there to nurture us? The seed that we sow needs nourishment like proper care, sunlight, water, good soil, conducive environment and so on. Likewise we the youths also need someone to care and nurture us.
We want to grow. We want to explore world. We want to live life with full of enthusiasm and also at the same time we want to contribute something good to the society so in later days, next generations could learn and get inspired to do great works on their own.
You may be saying. Go to institutions where you can get good training of your interested field, isn't it?
Saying this is easy and I've got lots of similar tales to listen from various people while sharing my dreams with
them.
I have a friend who also want to do something great in his life as we are striving to do. He is good in
acting and want to be like Hollywood Actor " Johnny Deep". But now he have changed and locked his passion into himself and have had been studying B.S.C, He now socialize less. One day I went and asked him, why are you behaving weird? Why  don't you come to meet us? He hugged me and cried then said " I've seen a dream to be the best actor but now I am studying B.S.C as it is not my interested subject, I am depressed and also I am using drugs to cope up with Frustration. I've told it to my parents many times about being an actor but they say that the person who do not do good in studies, who are LAFANGAS do acting. I tried to console him but in vain. These days he's in rehabilitation center.
I wonder why are our most of the educated Seniors do see other fields beside (Doctor, Engineer,
Pilot, Accountant) useless? Why they only think that securing good percentage in exam certificate will only help to make a bright future? I am not against all those high profile jobs . Do study those subjects if you truly have interest in  them.
Most of the youths today want to be the shining star in those field where they have inner interest.
Theaters, Cameraman, National Player, writer, Dancer, Photographer, Chef, Adventurous guide and lots more in which are their interest field where they see there future and want to make their own name and fame.
My only question is, if educated people talk and force their children or siblings that, other professions
like Tour guide, acting and so on is bad than what to expect from other people? Though most of them these days are bit aware of it however many people especially youths living in the rural areas are compelled to shut down their dreams and help their family members in their ancestral business.
Why do most of them don't understand by letting their child follow their dreams can really make them
happy and can get benefit in a long run? Having people in diverse field can help not only youths but their seniors can get the opportunity to get taste of the every field which can  make them happy in the real sense. Think critically, if we tie rope and don't let today's youth dream to flourish than it'll have an adverse negative effect not only to your family in fact a world will miss a true champion without being born.

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus  Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

GIve Them The Opportunity

MOIN UDDIN
Who is there to take the teaching responsibility if a teenager wants to know about sex and tries getting information about it secretly and gets caught and then faces humiliation from his seniors? Who is there to take
up the responsibility about the consequences if a youth tries his best to excel in his career but fails and gets
frustrated and commits suicide? Who is there to provide the youths with the experience of what the big companies these days want while recruiting employees? Who is there to take up the responsibility of the ongoing problems of today’s youth? There are lots of problems that today’s generation are facing but no one is there to take up the responsibility to help them. Most of the people talk about youths, but they never talk about their problems and the solutions to help them deal with them.
I had a friend some years back. We used to be very good friends. He was good in studies. His family life was not sound. There always used to be fights between his mother and father regarding money matters. His father used to work hard but he never saved money, as from his early days he was into drinking and gambling. My friend was frustrated by his family problems.
He started disliking his father’s behavior. He thought of finding a job to earn money so that he could fulfill his
aspirations. For many days he kept on buying newspapers and looked for the vacancies but could not find a job as the qualification which they wanted was higher than what he had. Also the sad part was he lacked working experiences too. He was depressed and started smoking.
He started being friends with others with similar tales. Slowly he was introduced to heroin and other drugs. He started making plans with other friends to loot pedestrians. As bad luck would have it, the first mugging itself became his last. As retaliation the people around hit him with a brick on his head and he died on the spot.This is only just one story. There are many more stories related to the youths. The family members should be aware about what their child is learning from the environment. The home environment should be sound. Schools, teachers, community all play a bigger role in making these youths’ life successful. Every organization has some responsibility towards society. Can’t these organizations create jobs for them. At least they can enroll them as volunteers so that they could learn and gain experiences which could be helpful for them to apply for good jobs.
Let’s think critically, as these youths are the ones who will contribute and give much more to the society if today the concerned parties invest in their well-being.

(This article was published on June 7, 2012, Thursday at the newspaper "The Himalayan Times" at page 8)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus  Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

We are alive

We are alive not by the oxygen we inhale rather we are alive by the small small successes, frustration, depression, pain, satisfaction which motivates us and aggravates our morale so that we can start our new steps further, by this we are being alive. Just think it once, Critically.
We have loosen our-self most often. We have erased all our existence, all our achievements in spite
of every good things we have had. But we never led our existence and achievements to get mature enough so that it could reap a sweet fruit but alas we killed it by not believing that someday soon it will reap those fruits. Success was so near of us but the turning point have blocked our vision and we couldn't see our goals as it has been blocked. Also the hard-work and struggles have made us so tired which have De-fulled us not to go any further thinking the goals are far beyond our reach in spite of good start, we lost only by not having courage to go further the turning point. Had we gone through it, we could have won the race as no-body was there to beat us at that moment. You know what, what happens then, we curse ourselves for not trying to reach there.
Sometime I stare at my reflection on the mirror. I come closer and again go farther. I look into my face,
my eyes, nose, lips also I look at my hair, the messy hair and then I question it to myself. Is it really me? or Am I the fake one. I then compare my achievements with the one present in-front of me at the mirror. My talents, my passion, hobbies is within me and I ask one who is in-front of me, Do you too have as what I've? He never answer as at first I've to answer then only he'll answer, as it is just my reflection, isn't it?
The world is a mirror. What you do will get reflected. People are always true, they say what they see
and it's not our right to say whether they are wrong or right as we are analyzed by the things we do. So the
audience are always right.
It's hard to follow our heart and you know what our heart demands, isn't it? It demands those things
which normally we can't achieve easily. It want those things which can give satisfaction to the soul. And if not
achieved despite true and hard effort we feel pain, which will do two things. First it'll shatter and demotivate us not to continue seeing our dreams and second it'll motivate us to continue our dreams anyhow. So, who goes and follows the second thing may get success as it has a huge possibility of achieving success. Thomas Alva Edison, Albert Einstein, Walt Disney, J.K Rowling are just some examples who have followed their dreams despite many harsh comments, efforts and conditions and today their effort have paid off. Not only they have kissed their success indeed everyone has been using and getting benefit from there achievement also many are getting jobs and are earning income to sustain their lives too. Isn't it a proudiest thing that one day your achievements can help many transform their life into better ones? Once Ayn Rand had said "Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours."Think, Just think and then take action immediately.

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus  Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Posted 2 days ago by MOIN UDDIN

Vulgarity at Garden of dreams

I have had  heard much about Garden of Dreams( KEshar MAhal)and it's beauty .I was really mesmerized by the architecture and the well designed building of it. I have magazines and the photos of it. But I didn't knew that what sort of people would come there. I for the first time along with my family members and relatives went over there and felt so ashamed by the vulgarity shown by the couples. I wonder why is the authorized person of Garden of Dreams not taking any action against those , I mean they should restrict that sort of vulgarity. It's a public place and almost all sort of people come over there, so if done these sort of things than it will encourage especially youths( age 16-25) to come and enjoy their own  RAMLEELA . We have some responsibility  and duties towards society. I am not against romance. I am not against love. 
Yes, do love your boyfriend /girlfriend very much.but not that way that also in a public place. Everything 
has it's own time and place. There is your private home to do that sort of things but not there boy and girls. I think  I should consult with AAMIR KHAN  to take this issue and present it in his show SATYAMEV JAYTE  as our authorized person won't do anything despite all those vulgarism shown and done publicly....
YES, Garden of Dreams is really beautiful, the environment is serene but it's not the place for doing 
those sort of things.Please take action . Make some rules so that it can be controlled. We are Nepalese and we 
have our own culture and traditions . we must preserve it. Nepalese are said to be the best cultured people around the world but this vulgarity that we saw doesn't speak anything more.
-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu

Is life a drama?

Watching Television is good and you know what, most of us stick to this particular idiot box, what many call it as its another name. HA HA....OK jokes apart.
Let's get serious. Most of the time, when we get free from our work, to rejuvenate, we get the Remote laid on the sofa and bring some snacks to the table, straighten our legs and flip the channel from one to the another, until something interesting comes and we get hooked to it and we watch it, if then our snacks finishes up, we go and bring again some but till when that show just don't get end up, we lay back and enjoy it to its fullest, isn't it?
Yes, I got the answer, you are absolutely right. Yeah watching T.V and its daily soap all day along makes us feel good hence to share what we found interesting at the show, we just search some interesting 
excuses and then call to our friend or fix the meeting time and we just keep on putting the butter to the interesting part that we liked while watching our favorite show on the T.V and make it so big that in a first meeting we don't get a time to conclude it and  Finally say BYE for that day, saying we'll later talk on Skype or on the Face Book.
Thanks to the development of technology that it has helped us to share our likings on phone despite talking much while meeting.
Now let's think it deeper. Are those daily soaps worthwhile to watch? Do that depicts reality? Do it 
help us to think positively? How has it impacted on your life? Is your family members happy with what you watch on the T.V? Are you socializing with your friends when you are watching your favorite show on T.V? The questions may get elastic to any extent but above mentioned questions are to be analyzed seriously.
It may be good for your eyes but it may not be good to the rest of it. Reality is really different from what it portrays. The character in the play faces trouble, someone give then job, meets a girl, get married, live happily, again faces trouble and so on. It is just an illusion, that we think that it's a reality hence find interesting and keep on waiting for the next episode to get aired on the T.V to watch on the next day at the same time.
You know your problems, you know yourself that how is life treating you, your families, friends. You 
also know that to achieve something in your life you've struggled a lot, shed tears secretly and cried louder when everyone is out of  the house, isn't it? Then why we get illusion by the easy success that's shown on the T.V. You know the reality, isn't it? Then why? Answer me.
We are culprit of our-self, we are the ones to make our life hell from what it was good before. We've 
made all our senses think that there is something called shortcut way to be the rich. There is no any shortcut for success. Life is not like an Oscar winning movie " SLUM-DOG MILLIONAIRE." where a boy from a slum area goes to the show, answers all the question correctly and win the million rupees.
There are famous people like Helen Keller, J.K Rowling, Walt Disney, Henry Ford, Dhirubhai Ambani, Tom Monahon. They have achieved success after many years of struggle, transformed those dreams into reality that they've seen way back before. There hard-work, continuous effort, positive thinking, risking life these all have helped them to achieve what they have got in the present. Though some of them are no-more in this world however their contribution and achievement will remain alive forever.
Let's don't waste our time watching daily soap which only entertains you but in a deeper sense affects 
your life, instead work, do something, listen , walk, shout, cook, sing which can help you in days to come to 
shape your future to the possibilities of many things.

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business 
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus  Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Is life a Fairy tale?

If life would be fiction than how would it be? What would you do in your fiction life ? Humm ? Would you live a life, like a people living in a Fairy world ?  Just imagine living in the era where Cinderella lived, imagine a place where Snow White lived, the hardship that they faced in their early life, problems again and again being presented in-front of them, which by the help of the small supporting characters. they overcame and slowly Prince would come and they would fall for each-other and at last they would get married and live a happy life forever.
Ahh...this is the life that most of us would like to live.
OK, now come out from the Fairy world life. Life full of problem, hardship, struggle, achievement, this is a reality world and it's really ugly from which we have to come out and live with the purposefulness and make a positive impact in the lives of millions of people.

Living life always in the chaos and making it more vulgar is what most of us do when we don't find any
way despite doing and working hard. We have to make an aim and also goals too but we mess up our life
thinking that we should achieve that only and we keep on working like a horse which only sees its front way. We shouldn't be like a horse. Instead we should focus on the wings that would relate with our goals and aims that  we've determined. If followed and grabbed all the opportunities related something that could help you one step further to achieve your dreams then it's for sure that soon that day will come in which you'll enjoy grabbing the trophies of the desired dreams that you've been dreamed for so long.
SO what else are the things to be kept in our mind to achieve our goals. First you need to explore yourself. What would you like to do in your life? What are your hobbies? If you don't have money then how would your day be like or how would you take that day? What are your principles? What makes you happy? What turns you off? So , the list can go long but these are some fundamental questions that you need to ask yourself to explore yourself. And the next thing is to work on the skills. Skills are those that you'll need in-order to perform a work better. It is to be chosen after exploring your talents to make that perfect.
Life is a Fairy tale in a real sense. You face troubles, you keep on working to solve them, in the
meantime you get an opportunity to meet various kinds of people with different thoughts. Some will betray you and some will help you. You'll fall in love, eventually after some time you'll get married then give birth to a wonderful child and then life goes on and on and on.
However understanding life is the main part and learning from the mistakes helps one be strong enough to hold his own identity.  :)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus  Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Life on the other hand

It is a serious problem that have to be cured soon and help our Nepalese brother and sister live life with full of enthusiasm and positiveness. In the news report it have had been reported that some 31 percent of the Nepalese rated there life worst. Also it has presented the causes like thriving, struggling or suffering from which  most of the Nepalese have rated there life worst.
I really don't understand with the Nepalese , as I've met and almost everyone seems like frustrating with what is going in there life. I am also Nepalese and I do face with problems but there is always a solution to get away from it. Struggling are the part of ones life and we must struggle to get the sweet fruit which can give the good taste later in the life. Life in the other hand is beautiful and we should see the positive things of it than saying, I have worked hard and didn't got anything. It's just like giving excuses. Those who have tried a lot doesn't gives excuses. They keep on working, if 1st plan fails then they used the 2nd plan and so on. People are derailed by the illusion created by the people living abroad. They think that there life is good and are earning much but in the real sense if we keep on looking to their life than we can sense how horrible there life is.
Let's think good things for ourself and also for others by doing so I can guarentee that  "One in three Nepalese rate their lives worse" from all the Nepalese rate their life with purposefulness and greateness. :)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  Email: moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Most Nepalese don't have any interest at all

We Nepalese are very very laborious and I can prove it that. We can see and get the data regarding thousand of Nepalese leaving for foreign countries especially Gulf countries to get a job as a labor. Maximum number of Nepalese go there to work as a labor. They are doing and working hard, working almost 18 hours a day but you know what, how much they earn? Rs 10,000 or Rs 15,000 per month, which if they have had worked here in the home country then they could have earned it easily but it's so sad that to earn a mere sum they leave country and end up working there as a labor, which helps Nepal garner a tag name for the most resourceful country to send a labor into Gulf countries, which in a deep sense is a humiliating tag name for a country. Do Nepal only produce labors? Can't it  produce experts? Intellectuals? Scholars? Engineers? Scientist? Writers? This is a serious question that a country itself should ask herself.
I have met lot's of people some of my age and some very senior than me in-terms of age and qualification. While having conversation I ask them what are your hobbies? What are you interested in? and you know what they say " khoi thahanai chaina." " Humm I don't know it." They ponder their problems but don't even dare to solve them. I ask them why haven't you solved your problem? Then they just sit quite. They don't speak anything. What they want is that all their problems get's solved by itself, without doing anything. Just imagine, if famous Novel writer J.K Rowling would have just kept silent despite problems and without writing fictions than had her day's would have been good as what it is these days? The answer is No. She worked hard. Her life was full of problems. She divorced and was living alone with her only child but she kept on juggling and worked towards fulfilling her passion i.e on writing fictions, this led her to be the world sensation writer and her Novels have been turned into films too.
`Nepalese are only laborious. They want to do only those things which there ancestors did. They lack interest in creative field. They don't like to take a risk in life and want their life to be safe, so most of them only does those jobs which guarantees them regular monthly income. I have many friends who want Government jobs so that they think that  there life would be secured but in deep sense they are risking their life , as life provides lots of opportunities if kept on working towards fulling own interest and hobbies. Had they tried working in the creative fields like film making, Research, Script writing, Dancing, Singing, Painting, Designing then it could at-least have changed the tag name of Nepal for only being the country for sending labors, which makes other talented Nepalese jobless. As those countries see Nepalese as a lower level workers who only does lower category of work like sweeping, carrying loads and so on.
There are talented people like Scientist, Writer, Chef, Banker, Entrepreneur but the number are very few. Nepal need to identify and work towards producing more such talented people and then train them to be an expert in their respective field so that they can compete with others in the globalized world.
Training should also include like personality development, leadership, public speaking, public relation,
positive thinking, mediating, problem solving, having persistence and so on. By doing so, we can assure that Nepal will be the only country having a diverse talented human resource than that of only being a labor producing country.  :)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus