Let’s respect the dreams of others.

Moin Uddin

Kathmandu

We are dreamers and we dream a lot. We aspire a lot. We want to achieve so many wonderful things in life which we haven’t just because we don’t have it. Like being a teacher, writer, musician, radio jockey, master of ceremony, video editor, camera person, photographer, doctor, sports person, actor, politician, religious preacher, chef, art collectors and many more.

It’s not that you don’t have a stamina to achieve all those, yes you have it, you try for it, you have a wonderful concern for it, you love it, but there is other thing called what life exactly wants to give it to you. You can’t get everything that you want. I’ll explain it to you by an example. When we were a kid, we wanted so many chocolates and ice-creams also our desire for toys were high that we fought with our parents and didn’t ate lunch and dinner most of the time. We were angry with them and they would just smile but would not give our demanded stuffs to us. They took so much of care and were conscious of our behaviors’ and mischievous acts. We didn’t knew then, but as we grew slowly and got to know about life also our understanding level grew, now looking all those years back we realize that yes our parents were right. Our elders’ sayings were right and we were wrong.

Similar is the case with our desires. We want something and life gives us other thing. We feel like, fate has some other beautiful plans for us. But at-least trying for the passion that you have is a courageous thing. I’ve tried so many things in my life, though getting them was not so easy, and achieving them was not so appealing. Why? Because the thing which we aspire and want to get them becomes difficult and the people who have the power shows their laziness to give it to us and seeing these behavior of theirs becomes a depressing thing for us. I’ll explain it you by another example. When you are thirsty, you want water, there’ll be people holding the water bottle, you ask them and they show you hope, you begin to fell thirsty and wait for that hope to offer you a drink, again you ask for it and they again show you other hope and this keeps on continuing and there comes a time when consciously unconsciously your body will be able to adjust without a water and then the person holding the water bottle comes to give it to you and you just feel angry seeing them; what’s the use of the water when the thirst has all ended?

Maybe life wants to give us more than a water, maybe a juice, but at-least those in power should do their best in letting people achieve what they need it.

In conclusion, give them when they ask for it, it’ll create a value and will help you in a long run and providing them when the charm has lost will not save you from being hated.

Let’s respect the dreams of others and also “you”, be ready to accept the life proposals, and don’t just get attached to the dreams that you see it, be flexible and receive what life offers in front of you.