Lessons from pigeon :)

MOIN UDDIN

It has been many years that I have shifted my room to the third floor.

To go to my room, one has to pass through the outer passage and then there is a corridor to the left. And if one passes through it there are three doors, one at the right the other at the left and one at the center. My room is at the right side.

Each day I go to my room and I spent most of my time there thinking, sleeping, and doing my work and also sometimes hanging with my friends too.

My room has been my world.

Since many years I’ve been watching outer room through my window though that room is not mine, it’s of the birds.

The pigeon has built the nest. There room is open, it’s just in front of my house at the corner which is open from every ends.

Almost two times in a year they built nest and lay eggs and keep protecting those eggs. I’ve learnt a great lesson from those pigeons which I want to share it.

The life of the pigeon is beautiful but also they have a risky life too, if not theirs than that of their upcoming Childs.

Ok let me tell you the romantic thing about theirs. Since many years, before constructing nest, they fall in love and the male pigeon showers his love to his lover. She shyly tries to go away but then lets the male pigeon to take over her. They kiss and slowly the female lowers her body and then male takeover her and mates her for some seconds. Which also makes me think that, is the pigeon teasing me or teaching me to make love, hum?

While doing make love scenes they first clear out that, is anyone looking on them or not? If they feel safe then they continue with their personal stuffs. The “make love scenes” continue for many episodes. Female tries to go away but the male chases her and convinces her to make love.

After certain days, when the female is about to lay eggs they search for a place to live and then they built nest and later when female lays eggs and keeps on protecting those eggs like a security personnel of a president. The male flies away in search of a food and helps her when in need and also gives time in protecting his wife eggs.

This Dashian, it rained and the nest they built got wet but then the pigeon kept on sitting on eggs though she was all wet and the weather was cold but then she kept on protecting. I wondered how these pigeons have the heart for their upcoming children. The pigeon had laid two eggs and are about to hatch it soon.

The lessons that I’ve learned from them is that, one needs to get naughty while expressing love to their lover so that their life gets romantically wonderful so that the coming life would pass with good memories and also the second lesson that I learnt is that when getting pregnant the mother has a kind of feeling which no any materialistic possessions can take it over. I mean it’s a priceless feeling to get to hold a baby in her womb and she desperately wants her child to come out from her wombs. She protects it from all the dangerous things even if someone tries to hamper them, she fights with the entire world. The third lesson that I learnt is that after being engaged in a relationship the male have the responsibility of taking care of his lover  and of his family and protect them from every possible hazards. I love watching pigeon and learning lessons from them.

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-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu

Email: moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

I have completed my graduation in Bachelors in Business Studies from Nepal Commerce Campus and I love blogging as well as exploring a good thing in a life.