What an Irony? Nepal Lacks creative people?

I am alone, No ones there by my side
Thinking about my future, pinches my heart
Though I've talents, Need someone to train polish it
But no ones out there, to give a heck little into it.
There are some who gets everything when born

NAME REPUTATION FAME MONEY everything is theirs
And normal person, most often dies to get it.
All people are creative, some recognizes earlier, some later, some never
Paradoxes are all there when it comes in implementing it.
What an Irony? Nepal Lacks creative people?
Ohh, this is untrue. go get, try, find and explore it. ......Moin Uddin

It's not an acting, not a good voice nor a good piece of writing that does wonders in human lives and makes them liked by millions of people. It's the feeling, down to earth nature, compassion, empathy, love that makes wonders. It's been a wonderful achieving morning watching great interviews and i must say JIM CAREY is not simply a JIM CAREY. He is JIM CAREY because of all the qualities that he has got and also he has gone through a lots of hardship when he was a child. This  made him the true human being. What a wonderful interview and he made dead place the livelier one...Really appreciative and A deep respect towards him..... Moin Uddin :) ♥

Poverty, The prime cause for talent drain

I've reads lots of interviews, personality books, watched lots of commencement speeches, interviews of the movie star, businessmen, singers and also of book authors, prostitutes, beggars, handicapped people and so on. Do you know what's their common saying is " I just want to come out from the poverty and don't want to live the life that I've lived, for these reason I am working day and night to change my world".Poverty and the lack of money are the prime hindrances for most of the talented people to come out and shine like stars. No-matter people give 2nd priority to it in their saying but it's a prime reason for talents to go in vain :(.....

Mr. Perfectionist?

                

I've already wasted my valuable time and life into doing the things perfectly. I work day and night to do a work sincerely to complete it in time. In-fact I try to finish before deadline and this has been a problem for me. There are some of my friends who are happy and are leading their life successful and are not afraid that if their work crosses deadline. Indeed they are the ones living a joyful life.

                Fear, rejection, disapproval are the elements that drives me to do a better work but this haunts me a lot and I am already into frustration. I want all the things to be perfect. I know there are many like me who have similar problem.

                Are we trying to be perfectionist? If then what is perfectionism?

                Perfectionist aspires to be top achievers and do not allow themselves to make even a single mistake. They are always on the alert for imperfections and weaknesses in themselves and others. Perfectionism is not the same as striving for excellence. People who pursue excellence in a healthy way take genuine pleasure in working to meet high standards. Perfectionists are motivated by self doubt and fear of disapproval, ridicule and rejection. The high producer has drive, while perfectionist is driven.

                I see others and get disappointed. The reason behind this is they take life and work for granted and goes beyond rules and regulation, perhaps they do anything what they feel like, which I think is incorrect but I am mistaken by my own definition. I should take life lightly like them as every other people do mistake and are given a chance to correct it but again my conscience doesn’t let me accept this as, if given a responsibility than we must do that work sincerely and wholeheartedly.

                I've gone through lot of problem in trying to be Mr. Perfectionist. My self esteem has always been low as I fear that I would be rejected if I do not perform perfectly. I almost have gone through depression. Most of the time, I lack motivation. I'd an obsessive behavior like focusing on details and rules. I've an eating disorder. And most importantly the relations with my family and friends have gone sour. They feel like I've a problem and I feel like they've a problem and ultimately I end up hurting people without meaning to hurt them.

                I’ve realized it sooner and have stated using a different methodology that high achiever would practice. They accept that making mistakes and risking failure are part of the achievement process and part of being human. There are some benefits of being high achiever. They set standards that are high but achievable, enjoy the process, not just the outcome, they recover from disappointment quickly, they view mistakes as opportunities for growth and learn.

                Once you are aware of the ways by which you expect yourself to be perfect, you can start to change your behavior. Remember one thing that there isn't anything that is perfect as everything has its perfect as well as imperfect portions. Enjoy life. :)

               

(Moin Uddin maintains interest in all things positive in life and loves to write about them, He is from Ghattekulo, Kathmandu and can be reached at moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com or 9841689437)

I won't stop writing

I won't stop writing. As I need to inspire and motivate people as well as I need to help myself from coming out of fear and anxiety. It only takes an inch to be a winner or a looser.just a mere milliseconds can change your world from what you are now. Let's believe in our dreams and let that dreams get transformed into beautiful thing which can help and make wonders in millions of people lives.I a

m born to inspire people and my name MOIN means to help people and bind them to do a great work and am simply doing that. let's change the world. i know you are like me who want positive change.so let's try at-least from now and the dreams that we saw will come alive in days to come.it may take 6 months or 1 year or 20 years from now but, now; we need to implant and work....:)

Perfectionism

In-order to do every work perfectly.i have hurt myself a lot than any other can just think of.I always believed in perfect work to be done in right time. I've always feared a lot that, what will it be if i won't be able to do a work in a time.I always try my best to finish my work earlier than a deadline. on the other hand i see my friends who are happy also don't fear if they cross their deadline. I was living a life full of anxiety and fear and always i lowered my voice in front of my seniors though I didn't do any mistakes but deep inside i fear that i might lose my job. i always pleased others and there i was wrong. i lived a wrong life.trusted wrong people and believed in them thinking they are perfect but no.Now i am not going to say any more sorry or any other thank you unless they really do something great work. I will overcome my fear and live a wonderful life that my god has given me. But yes, i must say that those who have truly helped me in my lil journey,thank you,thank you so much for everything. However now i m not going to apologize or lower my voice or appreciate fake peoples that I've encountered in my life. i will change..and 3 cheers for me myself for accepting to be changed..hip hip hurray..hip hip hurray...hip hip hurray. :)



(Moin Uddin maintains interest in all things positive in life and loves to write about them, He is from Ghattekulo, Kathmandu and can be reached at moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com or 9841689437)