Vulgarity at Garden of dreams

I have had  heard much about Garden of Dreams( KEshar MAhal)and it's beauty .I was really mesmerized by the architecture and the well designed building of it. I have magazines and the photos of it. But I didn't knew that what sort of people would come there. I for the first time along with my family members and relatives went over there and felt so ashamed by the vulgarity shown by the couples. I wonder why is the authorized person of Garden of Dreams not taking any action against those , I mean they should restrict that sort of vulgarity. It's a public place and almost all sort of people come over there, so if done these sort of things than it will encourage especially youths( age 16-25) to come and enjoy their own  RAMLEELA . We have some responsibility  and duties towards society. I am not against romance. I am not against love. 
Yes, do love your boyfriend /girlfriend very much.but not that way that also in a public place. Everything 
has it's own time and place. There is your private home to do that sort of things but not there boy and girls. I think  I should consult with AAMIR KHAN  to take this issue and present it in his show SATYAMEV JAYTE  as our authorized person won't do anything despite all those vulgarism shown and done publicly....
YES, Garden of Dreams is really beautiful, the environment is serene but it's not the place for doing 
those sort of things.Please take action . Make some rules so that it can be controlled. We are Nepalese and we 
have our own culture and traditions . we must preserve it. Nepalese are said to be the best cultured people around the world but this vulgarity that we saw doesn't speak anything more.
-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu

Is life a drama?

Watching Television is good and you know what, most of us stick to this particular idiot box, what many call it as its another name. HA HA....OK jokes apart.
Let's get serious. Most of the time, when we get free from our work, to rejuvenate, we get the Remote laid on the sofa and bring some snacks to the table, straighten our legs and flip the channel from one to the another, until something interesting comes and we get hooked to it and we watch it, if then our snacks finishes up, we go and bring again some but till when that show just don't get end up, we lay back and enjoy it to its fullest, isn't it?
Yes, I got the answer, you are absolutely right. Yeah watching T.V and its daily soap all day along makes us feel good hence to share what we found interesting at the show, we just search some interesting 
excuses and then call to our friend or fix the meeting time and we just keep on putting the butter to the interesting part that we liked while watching our favorite show on the T.V and make it so big that in a first meeting we don't get a time to conclude it and  Finally say BYE for that day, saying we'll later talk on Skype or on the Face Book.
Thanks to the development of technology that it has helped us to share our likings on phone despite talking much while meeting.
Now let's think it deeper. Are those daily soaps worthwhile to watch? Do that depicts reality? Do it 
help us to think positively? How has it impacted on your life? Is your family members happy with what you watch on the T.V? Are you socializing with your friends when you are watching your favorite show on T.V? The questions may get elastic to any extent but above mentioned questions are to be analyzed seriously.
It may be good for your eyes but it may not be good to the rest of it. Reality is really different from what it portrays. The character in the play faces trouble, someone give then job, meets a girl, get married, live happily, again faces trouble and so on. It is just an illusion, that we think that it's a reality hence find interesting and keep on waiting for the next episode to get aired on the T.V to watch on the next day at the same time.
You know your problems, you know yourself that how is life treating you, your families, friends. You 
also know that to achieve something in your life you've struggled a lot, shed tears secretly and cried louder when everyone is out of  the house, isn't it? Then why we get illusion by the easy success that's shown on the T.V. You know the reality, isn't it? Then why? Answer me.
We are culprit of our-self, we are the ones to make our life hell from what it was good before. We've 
made all our senses think that there is something called shortcut way to be the rich. There is no any shortcut for success. Life is not like an Oscar winning movie " SLUM-DOG MILLIONAIRE." where a boy from a slum area goes to the show, answers all the question correctly and win the million rupees.
There are famous people like Helen Keller, J.K Rowling, Walt Disney, Henry Ford, Dhirubhai Ambani, Tom Monahon. They have achieved success after many years of struggle, transformed those dreams into reality that they've seen way back before. There hard-work, continuous effort, positive thinking, risking life these all have helped them to achieve what they have got in the present. Though some of them are no-more in this world however their contribution and achievement will remain alive forever.
Let's don't waste our time watching daily soap which only entertains you but in a deeper sense affects 
your life, instead work, do something, listen , walk, shout, cook, sing which can help you in days to come to 
shape your future to the possibilities of many things.

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business 
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus  Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Is life a Fairy tale?

If life would be fiction than how would it be? What would you do in your fiction life ? Humm ? Would you live a life, like a people living in a Fairy world ?  Just imagine living in the era where Cinderella lived, imagine a place where Snow White lived, the hardship that they faced in their early life, problems again and again being presented in-front of them, which by the help of the small supporting characters. they overcame and slowly Prince would come and they would fall for each-other and at last they would get married and live a happy life forever.
Ahh...this is the life that most of us would like to live.
OK, now come out from the Fairy world life. Life full of problem, hardship, struggle, achievement, this is a reality world and it's really ugly from which we have to come out and live with the purposefulness and make a positive impact in the lives of millions of people.

Living life always in the chaos and making it more vulgar is what most of us do when we don't find any
way despite doing and working hard. We have to make an aim and also goals too but we mess up our life
thinking that we should achieve that only and we keep on working like a horse which only sees its front way. We shouldn't be like a horse. Instead we should focus on the wings that would relate with our goals and aims that  we've determined. If followed and grabbed all the opportunities related something that could help you one step further to achieve your dreams then it's for sure that soon that day will come in which you'll enjoy grabbing the trophies of the desired dreams that you've been dreamed for so long.
SO what else are the things to be kept in our mind to achieve our goals. First you need to explore yourself. What would you like to do in your life? What are your hobbies? If you don't have money then how would your day be like or how would you take that day? What are your principles? What makes you happy? What turns you off? So , the list can go long but these are some fundamental questions that you need to ask yourself to explore yourself. And the next thing is to work on the skills. Skills are those that you'll need in-order to perform a work better. It is to be chosen after exploring your talents to make that perfect.
Life is a Fairy tale in a real sense. You face troubles, you keep on working to solve them, in the
meantime you get an opportunity to meet various kinds of people with different thoughts. Some will betray you and some will help you. You'll fall in love, eventually after some time you'll get married then give birth to a wonderful child and then life goes on and on and on.
However understanding life is the main part and learning from the mistakes helps one be strong enough to hold his own identity.  :)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business
studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus  Email; moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Life on the other hand

It is a serious problem that have to be cured soon and help our Nepalese brother and sister live life with full of enthusiasm and positiveness. In the news report it have had been reported that some 31 percent of the Nepalese rated there life worst. Also it has presented the causes like thriving, struggling or suffering from which  most of the Nepalese have rated there life worst.
I really don't understand with the Nepalese , as I've met and almost everyone seems like frustrating with what is going in there life. I am also Nepalese and I do face with problems but there is always a solution to get away from it. Struggling are the part of ones life and we must struggle to get the sweet fruit which can give the good taste later in the life. Life in the other hand is beautiful and we should see the positive things of it than saying, I have worked hard and didn't got anything. It's just like giving excuses. Those who have tried a lot doesn't gives excuses. They keep on working, if 1st plan fails then they used the 2nd plan and so on. People are derailed by the illusion created by the people living abroad. They think that there life is good and are earning much but in the real sense if we keep on looking to their life than we can sense how horrible there life is.
Let's think good things for ourself and also for others by doing so I can guarentee that  "One in three Nepalese rate their lives worse" from all the Nepalese rate their life with purposefulness and greateness. :)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  Email: moinuddin_200000@yahoo.com

Most Nepalese don't have any interest at all

We Nepalese are very very laborious and I can prove it that. We can see and get the data regarding thousand of Nepalese leaving for foreign countries especially Gulf countries to get a job as a labor. Maximum number of Nepalese go there to work as a labor. They are doing and working hard, working almost 18 hours a day but you know what, how much they earn? Rs 10,000 or Rs 15,000 per month, which if they have had worked here in the home country then they could have earned it easily but it's so sad that to earn a mere sum they leave country and end up working there as a labor, which helps Nepal garner a tag name for the most resourceful country to send a labor into Gulf countries, which in a deep sense is a humiliating tag name for a country. Do Nepal only produce labors? Can't it  produce experts? Intellectuals? Scholars? Engineers? Scientist? Writers? This is a serious question that a country itself should ask herself.
I have met lot's of people some of my age and some very senior than me in-terms of age and qualification. While having conversation I ask them what are your hobbies? What are you interested in? and you know what they say " khoi thahanai chaina." " Humm I don't know it." They ponder their problems but don't even dare to solve them. I ask them why haven't you solved your problem? Then they just sit quite. They don't speak anything. What they want is that all their problems get's solved by itself, without doing anything. Just imagine, if famous Novel writer J.K Rowling would have just kept silent despite problems and without writing fictions than had her day's would have been good as what it is these days? The answer is No. She worked hard. Her life was full of problems. She divorced and was living alone with her only child but she kept on juggling and worked towards fulfilling her passion i.e on writing fictions, this led her to be the world sensation writer and her Novels have been turned into films too.
`Nepalese are only laborious. They want to do only those things which there ancestors did. They lack interest in creative field. They don't like to take a risk in life and want their life to be safe, so most of them only does those jobs which guarantees them regular monthly income. I have many friends who want Government jobs so that they think that  there life would be secured but in deep sense they are risking their life , as life provides lots of opportunities if kept on working towards fulling own interest and hobbies. Had they tried working in the creative fields like film making, Research, Script writing, Dancing, Singing, Painting, Designing then it could at-least have changed the tag name of Nepal for only being the country for sending labors, which makes other talented Nepalese jobless. As those countries see Nepalese as a lower level workers who only does lower category of work like sweeping, carrying loads and so on.
There are talented people like Scientist, Writer, Chef, Banker, Entrepreneur but the number are very few. Nepal need to identify and work towards producing more such talented people and then train them to be an expert in their respective field so that they can compete with others in the globalized world.
Training should also include like personality development, leadership, public speaking, public relation,
positive thinking, mediating, problem solving, having persistence and so on. By doing so, we can assure that Nepal will be the only country having a diverse talented human resource than that of only being a labor producing country.  :)

-Moin Uddin, Ghattekulo, Kathmandu  (9841689437)  I am currently doing my Bachelor In Business studies ( B.B.S) from Nepal Commerce Campus